My post a while ago completely offended people. It's unfortunate because the offense was not intended. I will not appologize for speaking my mind; the truth hurts some times.
I will say that the offended people should have come to me to discuss it or even just to report the offense...I hope that in time they will mature enough to realize discussions need to be had, even if they are difficult to start.
The post was intended to ask for help....of which I have received great advice. THANKS :) For now the issue has been put to bed, the events canceled and the offended have run the other direction. Here's hoping a conversation can be started. COMMUNICATION is the answer.